Relationship

Do you want to be with that person? A question I ask myself when I am more than friends with a guy. Do I see some good qualities in this guy. When I was younger I had a check list, as I got older I have come to reality. Don’t get things wrong I still have things that I look for in a guy it is just that this time around it has more to do with personality and how the person makes me feel then it does with appearance. Although appearance plays a role, it is not a major role. I have talked to multiple guys who were interested in me and I have dated a few of them. And looking back I don’t regret any of it. I believe that each and everyone of them was one that I learned from. Moving forward I now know more than I did in the past. I believe now I have the courage to not be afraid of losing the person in the process of finding love. I don’t know about most people but for me I use to sacrifice and put aside what I wanted in a relationship if it meant that I would lose the person. I would invest my time in doing what the other person wants and also making sure that they are happy even though that didn’t make me happy. I have come to realize a relationship is about prioritizing the person, loving, caring, sacrificing, understanding, compromising and the list can go on and on, but it would never work if only one person in the relationship is the one doing it all.