Would you take back your significant other if they cheated on you? This is a question my friends and I have talked about multiple times. We have had different views. Mine is a firm no. Some of my friends say that it depends on the situation. It depends if it’s their fault, meaning that if they did not give their husband some love or intimacy, then it was their fault, then their man cheating on them can be fixed. I, on the other handy, say that once a man has cheated on me then that is the end of our relationship. My reason is that he could have taken multiple steps before he could go and cheat on me. He could communicate with me or, he can let me know how he’s feeling. We can try and work it out if it’s a problem between our marriage, so that he does not need to go elsewhere. Ones we have tried and it is no longer working between us then it is better off for him or I to decide if it is over and move on. Instead of pretending we’re in the relationship and then doing something else outside the relationship with another person. I honestly think that if you love somebody no matter how you feel at the moment or what has happened within the relationship you wouldn’t want to hurt that person, so you will not do anything to jeopardize or put your relationship at stake. The feeling that you have at the moment might go away but you have to always remember the bigger picture and the better price. I think if you love somebody you wouldn’t want to see them hurt because seeing them hurt will also hurt you and knowing that you are the one that caused the pain, well, that is a pain you cannot live with. I also believe that this on its own is a big factor to stop them from cheating on their significant other. Having said this I would not tolerate or forgive a man who cheats on me.
Yessss
My sister is going to get married in a couple Of months I know that weddings in Ethiopia are very stressful and time-consuming but nevertheless it is always a fun and an enjoyable time. Almost every year at list one of my family members gets married. Since I’ve been here in the states there has been a couple of weddings that I have missed. But I know no matter what I would not miss my sister’s wedding even though it’s in the summer time. I can’t wait for the time to came. I wonder how I would be if it was my wedding if I’m this excited and happy for my sister’s wedding. She has gone through a lot and has showed me that failures cannot determine your future you can go through hard times and come out strong and keep going on. she is an example and a good role model for me. Now she is about to get married and start her own life hopefully soon we will all follow her footsteps.
Parents
Parents are so worried about their kids they want to protect them guide them and make sure that they grow up to be successful. How can the burden be all on parents. They worry so much about their kids that some of them have sleepless nights. Others just don’t know what to do because their kids are getting into trouble. Parents have their kids and then they say that’s the best gift that they have ever had, usually when we think of how we take care of our best gifts what often comes to my mind is with delicate, with protection to make sure that we dont lose or break it. The thing about life is that the same things that make you happy are the same things that got you worrying and in some cases it brings you pain as well, so how can a parent give their kids some space but still make sure that they are fine. The best a parent can do is teach their kids some rules and values that she or he can follow and learn from in order to grow. Eventhough a parent sees their kid grow they will always consider them as their little baby no matter how old they are. It is hard for a parent to accept the growth of their child and allow them to make there own decisions, but never the less it is one that they have to do.
The significance of a father
Fathers are seen as an example for their daughters. They set the scale for how a daughter views other guys. The way husbands treat their wife is seen by a daughter on how guys should treat her. The way father’s treat their children is seen by a daughter on how her husband should treat his children. If a father fails to play his role right. In the eye of his family special his daughter he leaves a big impact. When a father fails he is not only failing his family, but other guys that try to come in the life of his daughters. Guys will have a hard time as the daughter will face truest issues and other stuff that come along. She will make it hard for a guy to stick around long enough for him to one day become her husband. The value of a father is very significant.
Don’t force a friendship or a relationship.
It is funny when you notice that you are trying to keep your friendship with someone no matter what. You try to find the good in them, but you know that they are not a bad person. It is just that they don’t show any interest of being your friend. They almost never text you first, and you are always the one that keeps the conversation going on. Something I have learned over the years is that not to force friendship or relationship it should come naturally.
What happens after death?
What happens after death?A question many ask, but no one has the answer to. Theologist might say that you will go to heaven and have an enternal life. On the other hand, scientists will say that when you die you will get buried and your body will get decomposed into the soil. What do you think about the after life? Leave your thought in the comment box.
The truth …
A talk with a friend that tells you how it is feels so good. Deep conversations and meaningful talks is what I love. A person that looks out for your best interest is what we need. We all tell each other what we think they want to hear and often we keep the true unsaid. We often keep our thoughts to ourselves and only say the things we think is appropriate, so that we are not the ones to hurt their feelings, but if your friends are true friends they probably said what they said for your own good.
You can’t please everyone
Not matter how nice you are, some people either say you have been rude to them, or they simply just act rude to you. I have learned over the years that you can’t make everyone happy. No matter what you do there will always be people that would be hating on you. The best thing is to do what makes you happy and be around people that are true to you. There are so many people that are two faced.They act like they enjoy your company, but they talk bad things behind your back. Then you get tired of getting hurt, so you decide to change from the nice person you were, to being less nice, in general just to the different you than the one you used to be. At least now you are thinking I won’t be hurt. What happens with your change is that people pick up on that and then they now say you are different, you changed and so on. They might even say they don’t like the new you. No matter what you do you can’t please everyone. The source of your happiness should not depend on others, but rather it should come from you. At the end of the day no one will care for you more than you care for yourselves. Remeber this: it is better to be alone then to be surrounded with thousand’s of people that are fake and act like they want you ,but in reality they dont want you and you are better off without them.
what is love?
what is love? How do you define it. What words do you use to define it. Some say that love is just a four letter word or it is when you love someone unconditional, others say it can’t be defined but only felt. I would say that there is no right definition it is whatever it means to you. To me love is God. I believe that only God loves unconditionally. We as humans love according to the situation, according to what the person has done for us or the relationship we have with the person. When God loves he loves you no matter what. He loves you even if you hate him, he loves you even if you don’t believe in him, he loves you even when you doubt his power, He loves you even if you don’t follow his commandments, He loves you no matter the situation, no matter the circumstance . When God loves you there is no but, if, when, why or how. He simply just loves you. That to me is love!
To all the ladies out there…
To all the ladies out there. Guys will tell you what you want to hear until they get what they want from you. ladies we are known to think with our heart. What this means is that we let our emotions get the best of us. We also act according to how we fell regardless the situation. Most of the time we fail to act on the B.S. that guys send our way, but instead we take it and we let it be,and we let guys treat us how they please. Today, tonight, at this moment we are going to make a promise to ourselves that from this day forward we are not going to let that happen.
Live everyday like it's your last 